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Retirement could be an exciting time for some people, but can also be a time of anxiety for others. Maybe many of you have asked, what is meant by retirement? It was easy, really, retirement is a period where we can stop work and of course stopped to get regular income from work that we field. Now, if someone already has enough money to finance their needs in retirement, of course it would be very encouraging. Imagine, needs can be fulfilled without the need to keep working. Time and effort usually spent on the job can be used for rest or doing things that make our hobby. But on the contrary, if at retirement, a person does not or does not have enough money to finance his life, then what happens rather than relaxing, but anxious to find a way to stay alive. Right, right?

Many people, especially those who work as employees, were optimistic that he will be able to enjoy a pleasant retirement. "My company have a retirement fund for me later, why should I bother … think preparation pensions," comments some from them. True, everyone will want to experience an enjoyable retirement and not disturbing. Therefore, many companies that provide pension fund for employees who have worked hard for this, so they can retire in peace. But, have you ever counted how many Pension you would get from the company’s future? If yes, have you ever counted how many actually needs of your life after retirement future? And have you ever compared the two, so you know whether your retirement money or not enough to finance your life?

What often happens, people rarely try to find out whether their pension money enough to pay for living in retirement in the future. They just hang pension money from companies as a source of living expenses in retirement. In fact, only he himself knows exactly how many necessities of life after retirement, not the company. Therefore, it is very important to know whether your retirement money or not enough as the holder of your life someday. When enough, maybe not be a problem. But if not, then you are, willy-nilly, must add to yourself, so that later collected enough funds to finance the retirement your life.

All great ideas will lose at once when someone has to meet an important person, or you will be nervous when your superior calls you. This will happen because you or I have no confidence when we have to meet an important person. Our fault is we feel that we are under him/her at position or at socioeconomic. How to build confidence in front of an important person, below are the tips:

1.    When you have to meet face to face with an important person, say that you are the same as him/her. Say in your heart that you are important as well him/her.
2.    If you need him because you are as an employee of him/her, you have to believe that he/she needs you as well. Think that without you, he/she will not be like that.
3.    You must always remember that he/she is human beings, not God, not anyone. He/she is the same with you, the creatures of God.
4.    Believe that he/she has the same feeling as you do.

Well, this is my experience that I get as long as I work at a company. Maybe you will feel the same as I do that we feel nervous when we have to meet with an important person. If you gave any experience to overcome the feeling, let us know by commenting below.

It needs money to get the health and health is the valuable thing. Health is the most important of all. With health, you can do everything including working for money. At this discussion, I want to explain that by working, you can get the health. How can it be? Does the health come from healthy food and sport? It is exactly right but working as well.

When I work at the suitable job and, I will enjoy my work. I am always happy in doing some jobs and assignments that I have to do. However, in the contrary, if my job is something annoying, I become lazy to do some works. Finally, I will get stress. As you know, that stress will make our health down.

At this fact, we must choose the best job for us, and then we will feel happy to some works and other activities of our job. We will enjoy our work, and then we will get the best health.

When I was a child, I used to play football with my friends. At senior high school, we even held a competition among the group of class. Each group or each individual tried to play all out in order to be the winner in each game. Do you know what has made us have a spirit to win? Or do you know what has encouraged us to be the winner?

Maybe you think that the prizes that had made us have a spirit to win. No, you are wrong. The winner got nothing, no money, no medal, or whatever.

However, we gave what we had, skill and knowledge of football although we knew we would not get nothing. We did that because we were PROUD to win. Pride is the power we had at that time.

Let’s see at this time. What has encouraged you to your current work? Bloggers Engineers, Drivers, even the President. Is it because of MONEY?

I would say: YOU WILL GET NOTHING from your works. Be proud if you are a blogger, an engineer, a president or whatever. Money is the second but be sure, it will follow gradually.

I also write this article at kangrohman.com

To get the success, people must have a dream and dreams. You must have dreams when you are awake not when you are sleeping. This kind of dream will guide you to the success. If you are dreaming of having a car, having a house and so on, you will try to get them by working hard. Of course, you will do it if you think that you can. Optimistic and you see that your future is something possible. Never think it is hard to reach your dreams.

You must believe that your success will be built of your dreams. The belief of having success is the asset as well to reach it. You should see that many successful entrepreneurs can change an empty land becomes a luxury housing, high building or anything else. This happens because they have a dream.

Besides that, if you want to succeed in your career or work now, you should enjoy your work. Without it, you will always feel being forced to do something. Do you like it? I am sure not. How can I enjoy my work if I do not like it? Yes, you are right. That is the problem and that is your fault as well. First thing you should do is to find the work that you like the most. After this, you should enjoy your work and get your success in the future. I would like to ask you now, “What are you now? Are you a doctor? Are you an engineer? Are you a blogger? Is it your choice?”

Well, please answer those questions in your hearts.

I do apology for having given you the advice. Actually, I write it for myself. However, if you like it, I’d say thanks so much.

Be yourself! This is the answer to the question as asked in the title of this post. Each individual should bring his or her life different from the other one. I cannot be you or you cannot be me, or like them. One thing that you should do is playing your role as you are. Having an ambition is a must, but think positively to your life is necessary as well. You will never get as they get. God creates us with the difference.

Many people go frustrated and disappointed because they fail to reach their goals, life or career. This can happen to you and me. Frankly speaking, I once experienced it several years ago. I will tell you what it was, but I will give my experience to you how to cope with such situation. Would you like to be my listeners to listen to my story?

At first, do not ever blame anything or anyone when you fail to reach your goal. This is neither the fault of anything and you, but this is not yours. Re-evaluate what make it failed. Maybe it is not appropriate with your capability (?).

Secondly, believe that there are still many other opportunities for you or change your goal if you do not meet the requirements.

The third, know your own self. Who, where, how, or what you are at present. Look at yourself. If desired, take a mirror! (Real mirror, journey of life or experience)

The last but not least, ready to fight again!

I also write this article at kangrohman.com