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Feeling of love is not always expressed through words. However, the relationship will be more stable if you and your spouse also say it explicitly.

Before you say "I love you" to your spouse there are four things you should consider. Especially if you are revealing your spouse first.

Retirement could be an exciting time for some people, but can also be a time of anxiety for others. Maybe many of you have asked, what is meant by retirement? It was easy, really, retirement is a period where we can stop work and of course stopped to get regular income from work that we field. Now, if someone already has enough money to finance their needs in retirement, of course it would be very encouraging. Imagine, needs can be fulfilled without the need to keep working. Time and effort usually spent on the job can be used for rest or doing things that make our hobby. But on the contrary, if at retirement, a person does not or does not have enough money to finance his life, then what happens rather than relaxing, but anxious to find a way to stay alive. Right, right?

Many people, especially those who work as employees, were optimistic that he will be able to enjoy a pleasant retirement. "My company have a retirement fund for me later, why should I bother … think preparation pensions," comments some from them. True, everyone will want to experience an enjoyable retirement and not disturbing. Therefore, many companies that provide pension fund for employees who have worked hard for this, so they can retire in peace. But, have you ever counted how many Pension you would get from the company’s future? If yes, have you ever counted how many actually needs of your life after retirement future? And have you ever compared the two, so you know whether your retirement money or not enough to finance your life?

What often happens, people rarely try to find out whether their pension money enough to pay for living in retirement in the future. They just hang pension money from companies as a source of living expenses in retirement. In fact, only he himself knows exactly how many necessities of life after retirement, not the company. Therefore, it is very important to know whether your retirement money or not enough as the holder of your life someday. When enough, maybe not be a problem. But if not, then you are, willy-nilly, must add to yourself, so that later collected enough funds to finance the retirement your life.

WASHINGTON (AFP / Xinhua-Oana) – A team of international biologists has discovered a terrible pattern of lizard population extinction due to rising temperature, and if current trends continue, then as much as 20 percent of species will become extinct lizard foretold later than 2080. The study is scheduled to air Friday in the journal Science.

The researchers, led by Barry Sinervo, professor of ecology and evolutionary biology at the University of California, Santa Cruz, the main survey on lizard populations in the world, studying the impact of rising temperature on the lizards, and use their findings to develop a prediction pattern risk of extinction.

Their model accurately predicted the specific locations on five continents – North and South America, Europe, Africa and Australia, where previously lizard populations studied already extinct. Based on the predictions of the possibility of local extinction, the possibility of extinction of species is estimated at six percent by 2050 and 20 percent in about 2080.

By Ai Cahyati

A water source that comes from the former pit village of fallen trees in Betek, Mojoagung District, Jombang, since a few days be fight the people to drink. The people believe, the water can cure many diseases. Puddle emerged since Saturday (27/2/2010), following the collapse of a large tree by the local people named iprik or banyan tree rubber (Ficus retusa). Large trees are uprooted when a tornado hit.

Sholeh, one citizen said, a day after the fall of trees, in a puddle or a falling tree holes that emerged from the water source under the tree or tree roots.

"We think if we drinking that water, can able to heal all diseases. Initially, I was exposed to the disease rheumatic pain, but after drinking the water, I was instantly cured the disease, "Sholeh said , Thursday (4 / 3).

The same thing also was said by Yusuf, the local residents. According to the young men, based on stories from generation to generation, is already iprik trees hundreds of years old.

"It is said that already existed since 1800," said Yusuf.

When collapsed, said Yusuf, in addition to raise the water source, in the pools there is also the ancient bricks. "Although the water dirty, but desperate people take it because they considered of benefit," explained Yusuf.

All great ideas will lose at once when someone has to meet an important person, or you will be nervous when your superior calls you. This will happen because you or I have no confidence when we have to meet an important person. Our fault is we feel that we are under him/her at position or at socioeconomic. How to build confidence in front of an important person, below are the tips:

1.    When you have to meet face to face with an important person, say that you are the same as him/her. Say in your heart that you are important as well him/her.
2.    If you need him because you are as an employee of him/her, you have to believe that he/she needs you as well. Think that without you, he/she will not be like that.
3.    You must always remember that he/she is human beings, not God, not anyone. He/she is the same with you, the creatures of God.
4.    Believe that he/she has the same feeling as you do.

Well, this is my experience that I get as long as I work at a company. Maybe you will feel the same as I do that we feel nervous when we have to meet with an important person. If you gave any experience to overcome the feeling, let us know by commenting below.

When I was a child, I used to play football with my friends. At senior high school, we even held a competition among the group of class. Each group or each individual tried to play all out in order to be the winner in each game. Do you know what has made us have a spirit to win? Or do you know what has encouraged us to be the winner?

Maybe you think that the prizes that had made us have a spirit to win. No, you are wrong. The winner got nothing, no money, no medal, or whatever.

However, we gave what we had, skill and knowledge of football although we knew we would not get nothing. We did that because we were PROUD to win. Pride is the power we had at that time.

Let’s see at this time. What has encouraged you to your current work? Bloggers Engineers, Drivers, even the President. Is it because of MONEY?

I would say: YOU WILL GET NOTHING from your works. Be proud if you are a blogger, an engineer, a president or whatever. Money is the second but be sure, it will follow gradually.

I also write this article at kangrohman.com