Be yourself! This is the answer to the question as asked in the title of this post. Each individual should bring his or her life different from the other one. I cannot be you or you cannot be me, or like them. One thing that you should do is playing your role as you are. Having an ambition is a must, but think positively to your life is necessary as well. You will never get as they get. God creates us with the difference.

Many people go frustrated and disappointed because they fail to reach their goals, life or career. This can happen to you and me. Frankly speaking, I once experienced it several years ago. I will tell you what it was, but I will give my experience to you how to cope with such situation. Would you like to be my listeners to listen to my story?

At first, do not ever blame anything or anyone when you fail to reach your goal. This is neither the fault of anything and you, but this is not yours. Re-evaluate what make it failed. Maybe it is not appropriate with your capability (?).

Secondly, believe that there are still many other opportunities for you or change your goal if you do not meet the requirements.

The third, know your own self. Who, where, how, or what you are at present. Look at yourself. If desired, take a mirror! (Real mirror, journey of life or experience)

The last but not least, ready to fight again!

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